I know I have had a lot of conversations with people about sexuality and my sexuality and their sexuality and labels and different types of sexual orientation and the stigmas, negative cogitations, and struggles that they come with.
I think as human beings we have this necessity to label everything we are and even though that can separate us even more
it seems to be the way the world works. People will always try to tell you who you are before you can even fully figure it out for yourself. You can say you love people and you don't like labeling yourself but at the end of the day some people will still disregard everything you said and label you as what they think you are.
But here's the thing... who cares what people think!? It's not worth arguing over it with them.
If they think they know who you are better than you, then all you need to remember is that they're most likely focusing so much on who they think you are because they're still trying to figure out who they really are.
As long as you are comfortable with yourself and whether you label yourself or not,
Screw them!! Be who you are and love who you love!
Sexuality is a gigantic gray spectrum of all different shades and you shouldn't freak out about WHY you're attracted to someone
If you're attracted to someone you never thought you would be and you really like them you shouldn't force yourself not to do anything about it because of what you've been identifying as for however long.
I identify as gay, as a lesbian.
It's a big part of myself. My past, future and present
but it's still only a part of who I am. Not who I am completely.
And as a very big inspiration of mine once stated.
"I'm not a box. There are more than four sides to me."
*Sorry wow that was much longer than I intended ...thank you for reading this
So Point is: BE WHO YOU ARE AND LOVE WHO YOU LOVE don't worry about labels you don't have to label yourself but if you want to go right ahead! Do whatever feels right for YOU and YOUR comfort.
Also remember even if you're in an situation where you don't feel like you can be yourself because of environment you live in you just know that there ARE people that love you unconditionally that support you a million percent
There are always people here to talk to you and listen and we all love you so very much.
that is all thank you everyone who comments and favorites and watches me because of this! It means the world to me!
thank you guys again!