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Lesbian by mymagicaltutu Lesbian by mymagicaltutu
Hello! :D

I know I have had a lot of conversations with people about sexuality and my sexuality and their sexuality and labels and different types of sexual orientation and the stigmas, negative cogitations, and struggles that they come with.

I think as human beings we have this necessity to label everything we are and even though that can separate us even more
it seems to be the way the world works. People will always try to tell you who you are before you can even fully figure it out for yourself. 

But here's the thing... who cares what people think!? 
If they think they know who you are better than you, then all you need to remember is that they're most likely focusing so much on who they think you are because they're still trying to figure out who they really are. I mean who knows you better than you, right?

As long as you are comfortable with yourself, whether you label yourself or not,
Then screw them!! Be who you are and love who you love!

Sexuality is a gigantic gray spectrum of all different shades and you shouldn't freak out about WHY you're attracted to someone.  
If you're attracted to someone you never thought you would be and you really like them you shouldn't force yourself not to do anything about it because of what you've been identifying as for however long.

I identify as gay, as a lesbian.
It's a big part of myself. My past, future and present.
but it's still only a part of who I am. Not who I am completely
And as a very big inspiration of mine once stated.
"I'm not a box. There are more than four sides to me."

*Sorry wow that was much longer than I intended ...thank you for reading this :D

So Point is: BE WHO YOU ARE AND LOVE WHO YOU LOVE don't worry about labels you don't have to label yourself but if you want to go right ahead! Do whatever feels right for YOU and YOUR comfort.

Also remember even if you're in an situation where you don't feel like you can be yourself because of environment you live in you just know that there ARE people that love you unconditionally that support you a million percent  :)

There are always people here to talk to you and listen and we all love you so very much. 

that is all thank you everyone who comments and favorites and watches me because of this! It means the world to me! :blowkiss: thank you guys again!
xxoxoxoxo- tutu
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Im came out yestday to my mom and i tell her that im a lesbian and she was okay with. then she like a bitch to about it
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Hm..maybe I could let my mom know I am lesbian I that way :p but I'd have to clean up afterwards probably.
Haha it'd be quiet the coming out! Though I wouldn't recommend it, I did this to my own mirror and it came off easily lol Maybe you should make a cake instead so hey if she takes the news bad at least there's cake! 
BellaRomatica Mar 3, 2014  New member
Yes, a cake with "surprise mom I'm gay" written on it!Proud to Serve 
Hahaha oh my gosh that would be amazing! (love that emoticon too btw! ;D )
Katifran Jan 26, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Smart little girl <3 i agree your mind c: but not everybody things like you :3
depressed-angel26 Dec 26, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
You're amazing and an inspiration!!!!!! Kik me at rhythm26 if you ever wanna talk :) <3
EpicRaveMonster Dec 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You're so amazing. Just.. wow. <3
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