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Lesbian by mymagicaltutu Lesbian by mymagicaltutu
Hello! :D

I know I have had a lot of conversations with people about sexuality and my sexuality and their sexuality and labels and different types of sexual orientation and the stigmas, negative connotations and struggles that they come with.

The thing is people will always try to tell you who you are before you can even fully figure it out for yourself.

But who cares what people think!?
If they think they know who you are better than you, then all you need to remember is that they're most likely focusing so much on who they think you are because they're still trying to figure out who they really are. I mean who knows you better than you, right?

As long as you are comfortable with yourself, whether you label yourself or not, then screw them!!

BE WHO YOU ARE AND LOVE WHO YOU LOVE don't worry too much about labels, you don't have to label yourself but if you find the word that suits you and you want to identify as such, go right ahead! (sometimes it takes a while to find what it is that you identify as and you may not find a word at all and that's okay!)

Do whatever feels right for YOU and YOUR comfort.

Also remember even if you're in an situation where you don't feel like you can be yourself because of environment you live in you just know that there ARE people that love you unconditionally that support you a million percent :)

There are always people here to talk to you and listen and we all love you so very much.


that is all thank you everyone who comments and favorites and watches me because of this! It means the world to me! :blowkiss: thank you guys again!
xxoxoxoxo- tutu
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:icondreamchasercloudclan:
DreamchaserCloudClan Featured By Owner Jun 28, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Aah I LOVE your style! Those socks are amazing
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RobotUnicornAttack12 Featured By Owner May 2, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
i would totally date you if you let me
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Colourbrand Featured By Owner Apr 17, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Wisdom incarnate.

Wish they teach this in school - maybe we would have a better society instead of people pursuing vapid ideologies that lead to suicidal tendencies.

Great words :thumbsup:
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animegirl966 Featured By Owner Mar 12, 2015
This is so inspiring. It made me feel like I was gonna march over to the phone calk my coworker and say I loved her. I made it halfway to the phone and turned around. It really is to bad I had to fall for someone who not only isn't lesbian but is one of those homophobic Christians. ;( sorry for the rant. Anyways were way I. Oh yeah so very very inspiring! (closet lesbian if you couldn't tell)
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kashirarosea Featured By Owner Edited Jan 7, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
I love this! Whenever told my mom I was bisexual, she denied it. She said I'd have had to have liked both genders from a young age. Guess what? I did then, I do now, and I always will! 

Sorry for rambling, but this piece is inspiring. Truly beautiful.
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fyeahhistory Featured By Owner Nov 29, 2014  Student Digital Artist
wonderful picture Kitty Jessica and i love what you had to say too! love is love after all
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Neshi-Farfarer Featured By Owner Nov 3, 2014
Beautiful! Good for you. Glad that your family and friends are supportive, and that you're speaking out with such strength and sympathy for your fellows, regardless of where they stand on the gender line. 
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SkyeAmberJayde Featured By Owner Oct 7, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
This is beautiful!! I just came out as bisexual this year and posted it on facebook and waited for my parents to see it.

Your really pretty by the way and I love your socks!! They're adorable!! ^^ :*
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Nov 1, 2014
Oh wow! That's really brave, I admire that a lot! Do you mind me asking how they took it?

And thank you very much :D :blush:
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SkyeAmberJayde Featured By Owner Nov 1, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Awwwh thankyou so much!!

Well I put up that I was in a relationship with a girl and my friends took it really well. My mum came into my room the next morning and asked me if it was real and I said yes then she hugged me and told me she loved me and was so proud.

My dad messaged me on Facebook and told me he was proud of what I had done and wanted to meet my girlfriend :)
I cried alot hahaha :')
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2014
Wow that's fantastic! I'm really happy that everything worked out and your parents and friends were so excepting :)
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Iovequeen Featured By Owner Sep 10, 2014
ha when i had to tell my mom i waited until it was night and quickly said "i'm gay, good night"
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Nov 1, 2014
LOL omg that's great!
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WhenDarknessStrikes Featured By Owner Jul 31, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Oh man, I need to come out to my parents about being bi.
....what to do... what to do...
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Nov 1, 2014
You come out when you're ready hun, there is no rush to come out at all!
Just think about what you want to say and wait for the right time :) :hug:
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WhenDarknessStrikes Featured By Owner Nov 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I've already came out to my mom, but i'll wait to come out to dad seeing as he won't believe me until i'm more mature or something...
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2014
I totally get that, unfortunately some parents are like that. When I was younger I was hesitant to tell my mom for the same reason, I hope it works out well when you do decide to tell him though :)
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WhenDarknessStrikes Featured By Owner Nov 8, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
I hope it does too! Thanks!
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becomeonewithrussia1 Featured By Owner Jul 24, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
Please help me. I want to tell my mom and my crush, but Mom never listens and don't know how the crush'll react :(
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Nov 1, 2014
Hey there! Coming out is really scary, it's never easy just take the time to think about how you want to tell them and wait for the right moment (I'm so sorry it took so long to reply btw)
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becomeonewithrussia1 Featured By Owner Nov 1, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
(It's okay.) My issue changed a bit. Some kids in school figured me out, and I'm dating an amazing girl that Mom approves of, since I introduced her to Mom as a close friend.
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Nov 5, 2014
Oh that's really wonderful! I'm very happy for you :hug: 
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becomeonewithrussia1 Featured By Owner Nov 6, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
Thanks :3 Mom knows now (not of my own free will), but she isn't mad. 
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Nov 7, 2014
Well that's good that she wasn't mad! (I'm sorry it wasn't your choice she found out, my dad found out before I told him too)
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becomeonewithrussia1 Featured By Owner Nov 7, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
I was so worried! (How did he find out?)
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bornthiswayfox Featured By Owner Jun 15, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
thanks for all the help you gave me a while ago. now my parents know :hug:
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:iconmymagicaltutu:
mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Jul 4, 2014
That's great! I'm so happy for you :hug:
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bornthiswayfox Featured By Owner Jul 12, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
aww thank you! youre the best! :huggle:
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Nov 1, 2014
:hug:
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bornthiswayfox Featured By Owner Nov 1, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
:huggle:
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Phramer Featured By Owner May 26, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
You know, my biggest question about this picture was "where's the hell is the camera?!"
I found it though.
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Jun 13, 2014
:giggle: I'm glad it wasn't too noticeable right away :P
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Phramer Featured By Owner Jun 13, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
:p
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GreenyDrowned Featured By Owner May 15, 2014  Student Filmographer
Wow!! That girl is cute and if that is you, your so cute and your also pretty :3 ^.^
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BellaRomatica Featured By Owner Feb 26, 2014
Hm..maybe I could let my mom know I am lesbian I that way :p but I'd have to clean up afterwards probably.
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2014
Haha it'd be quiet the coming out! Though I wouldn't recommend it, I did this to my own mirror and it came off easily lol Maybe you should make a cake instead so hey if she takes the news bad at least there's cake! 
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BellaRomatica Featured By Owner Mar 3, 2014
Yes, a cake with "surprise mom I'm gay" written on it!Proud to Serve 
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Mar 18, 2014
Hahaha oh my gosh that would be amazing! (love that emoticon too btw! ;D )
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BellaRomatica Featured By Owner Mar 18, 2014
 
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Katifran Featured By Owner Jan 26, 2014  Hobbyist Artist
Smart little girl <3 i agree your mind c: but not everybody things like you :3
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depressed-angel26 Featured By Owner Dec 26, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
You're amazing and an inspiration!!!!!! Kik me at rhythm26 if you ever wanna talk :) <3
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Bohemian-Minx Featured By Owner Dec 22, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
You're so amazing. Just.. wow. <3
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2014
:blush: :D :hug:
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Exhister Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2013  Hobbyist Interface Designer
Where's my first comment?
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:iconexhister:
Exhister Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2013  Hobbyist Interface Designer
Also...YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2014
:D :D :D
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Exhister Featured By Owner Dec 6, 2013  Hobbyist Interface Designer
Your outlook is an inspiration to me. I am not gay, but do not judge because I don't have the right to do so. I know I have been judged and labeled for the how I live and have lived my life- a former addict of opiates, a LOVER of porn (especially lesbians :) ) & my experimentation with another male. I say FUCK WHAT PEOPLE THINK, SAY AND THE LABELS & JUDGEMENT THEY PUT ON YOU! Very nicely written with a bold and powerful attitude! I am proud of you.
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mymagicaltutu Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2014
Aww! You're so sweet thank /you/! I completely agree with you as long as you're happy and not hurting anyone screw what people think! thank you again :hug: :D
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