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Lesbianby ~mymagicaltutu

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Hello!

I know I have had a lot of conversations with people about sexuality and my sexuality and their sexuality and labels and different types of sexual orientation and the stigmas, negative cogitations, and struggles that they come with.

I think as human beings we have this necessity to label everything we are and even though that can separate us even more
it seems to be the way the world works. People will always try to tell you who you are before you can even fully figure it out for yourself. You can say you love people and you don't like labeling yourself but at the end of the day some people will still disregard everything you said and label you as what they think you are.

But here's the thing... who cares what people think!? It's not worth arguing over it with them.
If they think they know who you are better than you, then all you need to remember is that they're most likely focusing so much on who they think you are because they're still trying to figure out who they really are.
As long as you are comfortable with yourself and whether you label yourself or not,
Screw them!! Be who you are and love who you love!

Sexuality is a gigantic gray spectrum of all different shades and you shouldn't freak out about WHY you're attracted to someone
If you're attracted to someone you never thought you would be and you really like them you shouldn't force yourself not to do anything about it because of what you've been identifying as for however long.

I identify as gay, as a lesbian.
It's a big part of myself. My past, future and present
but it's still only a part of who I am. Not who I am completely.
And as a very big inspiration of mine once stated.
"I'm not a box. There are more than four sides to me."

*Sorry wow that was much longer than I intended ...thank you for reading this

So Point is: BE WHO YOU ARE AND LOVE WHO YOU LOVE don't worry about labels you don't have to label yourself but if you want to go right ahead! Do whatever feels right for YOU and YOUR comfort.

Also remember even if you're in an situation where you don't feel like you can be yourself because of environment you live in you just know that there ARE people that love you unconditionally that support you a million percent

There are always people here to talk to you and listen and we all love you so very much.

that is all thank you everyone who comments and favorites and watches me because of this! It means the world to me!

thank you guys again!
xxoxoxoxo- tutu

~waxter013 2 days ago

You're so awesome. As a guy, it sucks that your lesbian.

~suus777 May 11, 2013 Hobbyist Photographer

you are amazing

~mymagicaltutu 3 days ago

YOU'RE amazing!

~suus777 3 days ago Hobbyist Photographer

thanks

~Ally-sun Apr 29, 2013 Hobbyist Photographer

Hey, so we haven't spoke but I thought I'd reply.
One, beautiful picture... It took me a while to figure out there was a mirror there, I thought you had three legs lol.
Anywho. Totally agree with what you're saying. I am what people call "bisexual" or "gender blind" I say I'm a "human" - I'm a person who is open to the fact that if you like/love someone then it shouldn't matter what gender they are at all. "It's about hearts not parts." If you're a nice person and we get on and we begin to feel those feelings - Why should there be a stigma upon a relationship just because of a persons sex. There shouldn't.
I was brought up with christian parents, so was brought up feeling it was wrong to be gay. Then when I got older and bucked up the courage to tell me mum... I won't lie - She freaked out, took us a while to patch things up. But we got there - And she still loves me.

I'm now open and honest about who I am, because what's the point in pretending to be anyone or anything else. I prefer girls, and always have been.
If people want to give me a label and call me a lesbian, I'm fine with that. I basically am and happy to be one.
I had so much more to say.... But I feel I went off topic.... And didn't wanna write too much (I should have made this a note lol, whoops)

You carry on being who you are hun and people who matter will continue to support you!!

~kotabear01 Apr 23, 2013

I would date you!

~thepurpleharlequin93 Apr 13, 2013 Student Writer

I feel so identified

"BE WHO YOU ARE AND LOVE WHO YOU LOVE don't worry about labels you don't have to label yourself but if you want to go right ahead!"

Those words are the most moving I've read in my life.

~mymagicaltutu Apr 15, 2013

Oh shucks! thank you!! that means the world to me! I just.. no words can express how that makes me feel

~thepurpleharlequin93 Apr 15, 2013 Student Writer

I am the one who should be thankful for sharing this

those words got into me as you can't imagine

I know what it feels like, I know what it feels like to make everyone around you "dissapointed" just because you loving preferences are different. But know you're not a bad person because you are a girl who loves girls. Love knows no gender. I can assure you that

Know you're not alone. There are good people who will hold you until the wounds are healed.

Love to you

~millycastanon Apr 11, 2013 New member Hobbyist Photographer

That's amazing <333

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